September 3

5 Surprising Reasons You’re Tired All the Time… and how to fix it


Aging is a funny thing. And by “funny” I don’t mean LOL funny. More like OMG what happened? funny.

For example…

One day you’re Person A, going through your day, running errands, seeing a movie, going out to dinner. You get home, you’re pleasantly relaxed, have a glass of wine, and go to sleep at around 11:00 or so.

Then comes the day when Person B appears.

Person B doing the exact same activities now requires a nap, an ice pack, a couple of ibuprofen and 15 minutes Googling “symptoms: extreme exhaustion for no reason” on WebMD.

The difference between the two scenarios: a couple of decades.

The most frightening part is you feel like Person A most of the time, so when Person B rears her ugly head, you’re always unpleasantly surprised.



Falling asleep at your desk in the middle of the afternoon because you added 10 minutes to your usual cardio routine or did an extra set of chest presses.

I totally get it.

It’s enough to make a person actually read the cremation flyers that mysteriously show up in the mail along with the scientology newsletter for which you also have no explanation.

Or maybe that’s just me.

At 61, I’m not only NOT the life of the party, but the mere thought of staying up past 8:00 p.m. for any reason beyond a mandatory evacuation is beyond my comprehension.

I get emails on this topic all the time, like one I received this week from a reader, Suzanne. As a lifelong fitness aficionado, Suzanne was searching for reasons why she no longer was able to do her prior workouts with the same gusto. She suspected adrenal fatigue.

Truth is, even if you’re fit and active and have been for years, the body simply requires more recovery time as we age. It’s one of nature’s cruel reality checks.

The same activity done in your 20s, 30s and even your 40s literally takes more out of you, according to a number of medical experts I’ve spoken to over the years.

Instead of one recovery day off a week, you may need two or three.

That said, the normal energy downgrade with age does not mean utter exhaustion from simple task. If doing the laundry makes you feel as if you’ve just completed an Ironman triathlon, you may want to get a professional opinion.

It could be something or may be nothing.

First, rule out “something” by marching yourself over to your primary care physician to rule out anything serious such as anemia, sleep apnea, a heart disorder or any other number of fun situations.

Once you’re given the green light, try these tips to combat the most common energy-zapping culprits…

1. Water yourself

Drink up! Sorry, I’m not referring to wine. If only. Nope, something far better because you won’t feel hungover the next day: water. Even being slightly dehydrated by 2% can cause fatigue. Not drinking enough water can also be behind an afternoon “tension” headache. Dehydration makes your heart less efficient; it pumps harder to do the same job. This reduces the speed at which oxygen and nutrients reach your muscles and organs. So increase the water you drink throughout the day and see if you feel more energetic. Experts recommend 11 cups a day, which may be a combination of water and other liquids.

2. Break your fast

If you think you don’t need breakfast and expect to make it to lunchtime without being ravenous, think again. Eating breakfast fires up your metabolism and sets the tone for the day. Skip this meal and end up hungrier, crankier and tired by noon. Include a lean protein, healthy grain and some fat. A good example is a smoothie made with fruit, protein powder and low-fat yogurt or milk.

3. Keep sweetness under wraps

An occasional treat won’t ruin your day, but a steady diet of Pop Tarts, donuts and and fast food throughout the day makes your blood sugar spike and dip worse than a Six Flags roller coaster ride. Those dips wreak havoc with your energy. Keep blood sugar steady with small mini meals throughout the day. Each should contain a lean protein to keep you full longer between meals.

4. Marie Kondo your environment

No, this post is not sponsored by Hoarders. But interestingly, a Princeton study showed that a cluttered desk mentally exhausts you and restricts your ability to focus. Can anyone say “overwhelm”? Do a clean sweep, or at least put the mess behind closed doors to avoid taxing your brain.

5. Avoid weekend sleep marathons 

Yes, you’ll hate me for this, but I’m just the messenger. Truth is, if you get up early on weekdays, you probably look forward to sleeping in Saturday and Sunday. Who can blame you? Problem is, by Sunday night you’re wide awake at your normal sleep time and feel jet lagged through Monday. This can easily carry on through part of your week as well. The key lies in keeping similar hours, or at least waking up close to your weekday time and getting in a nap to recharge during the day. Sleep experts say to limit extending sleep more than an hour beyond your normal wakeup time. Otherwise you risk becoming even more tired when you wake up.

How’s your energy level? If it’s less than stellar, will you try these tips? Leave a comment below! I’d love to hear from you.

Other posts you may enjoy:

The secret to creating lifelong habits no one tells you

Ways to boost self-discipline so you can achieve any goal

5 Traits of an effective, safe, total body workout

Your Ageless Body Coach,



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  1. Hi ageless Linda… Love your blog, You know what? We are all so scared of getting older that we get all kinds of funny symptoms – not even realising that they are scaring the whit out of us. We are afraid of wrinkles, sags. midlife fatty love handles (or hate handles). We are afraid of losing our identity and gradually getting invisible… Being part of the ageing army of sexless, wobbly creatures that are part of the tsunami of senior citizens. STOP. We have to take ourselves back and enjoy who we have become. I am a writer, a well known person in Norway as an expert on health, beauty, spa and fitness . When I retired, I decided to escape from the cold and the ageism – and I moved to a new life in the Canary Islands. Wow, I have a fantastic, active life – great friends of all age groups – and my life has never been better. I was 70 when I took the step into the unknown, and I am now 79 – living the life of my dreams.

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