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7 Reasons you’re not seeing results (and how to fix it)

I started working out at age 21, otherwise known as the Dawn of Time. I was present for the birth of aerobics classes and the cult-like following of Atkins. I survived Flashdance fashion, Jane Fonda high-rise leotards and endured a stress fracture from many months of high-impact cardio on unforgiving, cement gym floors.

In short, I’ve been an eyewitness to trends, cults, and rises and falls of everything fitness.

Through it all I always belonged (and later worked at) to one gym or another — private gyms, large chain gyms and a few one-on-one boutique type facilities.

It wasn’t long before I noticed a few patterns, regardless of the type of gym, class or clientele.

Can you figure out which one?

  • Every gym has at least one creepy guy who wears too much cologne, not enough clothes, and spends 90% of his time admiring his own biceps
  • There’s always one “expert” doling out unsolicited advice no one wants to hear
  • Someone who does hours of cardio and never misses a day, yet doesn’t seem to lose weight or ever see changes in their body

Time’s up!

If you guessed all three you’d be right.

But for the sake of today’s post, let’s focus on #3, since I can’t do much about #1 and #2 other than suggest carrying a can of pepper spray in your gym bag at all times.

In addition, you may be person #3. How do you know? If you’ve ever uttered the words, “I’m doing everything and I’m still not losing weight/getting in shape!” you’re that person.

If you’re a healthy person (e.g. free of thyroid issues and any other medical condition that may affect your weight), here are the most likely reasons you’re in suspended animation…

1.You’re already fit

This isn’t the worst problem, to be honest. The closer you are to your goals, the harder it is to continue making progress. For example, an overweight sedentary person with 50 lbs. to lose who cuts calories and starts walking will quickly see results. An athletic person who’s within a normal weight range but wants to shave off five pounds will take much longer.

2. You’re afraid of weight training

Every time I think we’re beyond this age-old concern, a woman will ask me if she’ll get “bulky” from resistance training. Not only is this P.P. (Pure Poppycock), but weight training could be the key to unlocking A. weight loss and B. muscle tone. If you’re not lifting weights you won’t see muscle tone. Period. Twice to three times a week should do it.

3. You eat too much

You can’t outrun your fork, as the corny saying goes. But it’s true. Regardless of how much exercise you do — running included — if you’re taking in more calories than you need you won’t see changes. You must cut calories and eat clean (mostly fresh, unprocessed food) to lose weight.

4. You love your comfort zone

This goes for both eating and exercise. If you’re unwilling to be a little uncomfortable you won’t see changes. If you enjoy a couple glasses of wine a night or dessert after every dinner and know you need to cut it out but won’t, it’s your choice. No judging here, but you can’t expect to see the results you want if you’re unwilling to give up something. Look, instead, at the things you GAIN: a healthier body overall, more energy or whatever else motivates you.

Keep in mind, too, that the initial feelings of deprivation go away with time. Once you establish a pattern it becomes a habit you no longer need to think about. Promise.

5. Your work out when you’re “in the mood”

Yes! That word again: consistency. It’s key to everything, the answer to nearly every question I get about results. If ONLY we could exercise once and be done with it. Alas, it’s simply not the case. It’s like taking prescription medication. If you have high blood pressure like me, skipping a few days is not an option. That is, unless I want to see sky-high numbers and risk getting into stroke territory. Look at activity, whether structured (a specific workout plan) or unstructured (shopping at the mall, gardening, running after your grandkids, etc.) as medicine to keep you sane, fit and help you manage your weight

6. Your workout’s on autopilot

This tip’s an offshoot of #4. It’s easy to get comfortable and simply repeat the same workout day in and day out, for days, weeks, months and even year on end. Besides the risk of dying form boredom, your body adapts. It get easier because your muscles become more efficient. That’s good news and bad news. Good news: It feels easier. Bad news: Your results come to a screeching halt. Add something new, increase the intensity in some way or otherwise change your approach every six to eight weeks.

7. You give up too easily

This goes along with #4, not getting outside your comfort zone. And when you do, you last for a couple of weeks and then decide it’s not working. Whew! Dodged that bullet. Time to get back to your old habits. Therein lies the problem: Any changes you make must be ones you do for life if you want to keep those results for life. This does not mean you can’t ever treat yourself, have a glass or two of wine here and there or enjoy dessert. It just can’t be every day. Temporary changes result in temporary results.


What are your frustrations? Do you feel you’re doing everything and still can’t see any changes? Let me know in the comments section below… I’d love to hear from you!

In the meantime, may enjoy these older posts:

5 Ways to turn failure into raving success

How to motivate yourself to exercise when you hate it

3 Keys to reach your fitness goals faster

Your Ageless Body Coach,


About the Author Linda Melone

Linda Melone is a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist, certified trainer and award-winning health and fitness writer. She specializes in helping women over 50 get in shape and lose weight.

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Catherine Moore says

I’m printing these and looking at them every day….that’s how much I appreciate these words. Fit me to a tee.

    Linda Melone says

    Great idea, Catherine! Glad you found them helpful.

Laly says

That’s me, for all 7, actually for all 6 because nr 1 definitely doesn’t apply to me lol great post, I’ll try to tackle one by one. Let’s hope this time it will stick

    Linda Melone says

    Just keep moving forward and you will get there!

Denise Fordyce says

Thinking about all those Bicep Boys (yep, the ones admiring themselves in the mirror) makes me laugh: ever notice that they have massive biceps but just teensy tiny chicken legs…?

    Linda Melone says

    lol! So true. It’s easier to build biceps than leg so some guys just ignore them. Not a good look.

      Denise says

      My daughter, who until recently worked in a gym, knows them as “MLD”s: “Missing Leg Days” boys.

Patricia Scott says

Hi Linda. I’m #1. My daughter is my workout partner and she is making great strides and I keep reminding myself of #1. It is a joy to see her losing weight and gaining major muscle. (We neither one are afraid of muscle growth. In fact we work for it.)

    Linda Melone says

    You’re a great role model for her, Pat :).

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