When it comes to fitness, there’s no shortage of inaccurate, often dangerous and overall bad clickbaity information out there.
Anyone who looks the part can call themselves a “fitness expert,” regardless of their knowledge or fitness background.
Problem is, when you’re a woman over 50 who’s trying to get in shape, trying the latest, greatest, high-intensity workouts touted by the loudest fitness mouth can land you in a heap of trouble.
At best, you end up on the couch with an ice pack and bottle of ibuprofen and BioFreeze roll-on.
At worst, you find yourself being carted out of the gym by paramedics in front of the rush hour crowd, who take photos of you being loaded into the ambulance with the #BoomerProblems.
Either way, you decide it’s safer to go back to doing nothing. “Being in shape just isn’t my thing,” you decide.
But there is a way.
Most importantly, find workouts created for YOUR fitness abilities and YOUR lifestyle.
Hint: Routines you did in your 20s are probably not going to end well.
I have several workout programs like the Ageless Body 12-Pack Plan – all created and performed by 61-year old me. So chances are, if you’re over 50 you’ll reap good results from them.
And keep in mind the following, counterintuitive, advice.
All sound a bit crazy, but they seriously do work. Take one or all of them to heart and see how you do…
1. Stop trying
There’s a big difference between making a commitment and “trying” out a new workout, class, eating program — whatever.
The latter gives you a way out.
“Well, I tried!” you say, after you miss a yoga class because of a snowstorm, as you plop on the couch and turn on Netflix, grateful for dodging that bullet.
Problem is, that’s a sure way to never make progress.
The people I coach who make real changes do this one thing: THEY MAKE A COMMITMENT.
They make a decision and stick with it regardless of what happens.
It’s the only way to make real changes… and they follow the following additional tips as well.
2. Plan to fail
Okay, this sounds nuts, you may be thinking. But in reality, when you make a lifestyle change, not a temporary fix, life will continue to happen around you.
Meetings, family events, health stuff, a stuck garage door that doesn’t enable you to leave the house, a swarm of locusts — anything can happen.
It’s simply inevitable.
Deal with it as best you can and get back on track ASAP.
Allowing excuses to get in your way and waiting for the “perfect time” to get started means you won’t do it.
I’ve been working out consistently for 40 years. I assure you, I’ve had my share of “life events” that took me out of the loop at times.
When that happens, do what you can to the best of your ability — make alternative plans — don’t beat yourself up, and get on with it.
3. Take your eye off the prize
We tend to focus on the finish line when we have a goal in mind. Gotta get to that number on the scale or fit into that size X jeans!
Problem is, if your driving force is reaching that particular point of reference, let me ask you something:
What will you do when you reach it?
If you hated the entire process and suffered through grueling workouts and/or starvation diets to get there, chances are you will quickly slide back into your old habits.
Torture is not something you want to practice for the rest of your life.
Instead, find something — music, friends, etc. — you enjoy about the PROCESS and focus on the journey.
It’s like taking a long drive and finding scenic routes along the way. It makes the trip a whole lot more pleasant.
And when you reach your goal you’ll be better able to stick with it for good.
And that, my friend, is the name of this game.
4. Eat your favorite foods EVEN if you’re striving for weight loss
Yes, even chocolate.
Avoid putting certain foods on a Never To Eat Again list.
No one food will make you pack on pounds unless you go beyond your calorie limit.
It takes 3,500 calories to gain a pound of fat, so eating a square of chocolate at 150 calories isn’t the problem.
Doing it every single day or eating your body weight in Godiva is another story.
If you enjoy bread (which happens to be my weakness — I could live on bagels), track how much you really eat. Be accountable for it — maybe cut down on a portion of something else for that day.
And don’t eat something you crave by eating it on the run, but really sit and enjoy it.
Eat it without distractions.
Be in the moment.
Enjoy and move on. Next!
5. Step away from the scale
This one doesn’t work for everyone, but it worked for me and a lot of people I know.
Yes, research shows people who track their weight on a daily basis are able to keep their weight under control better than those who do not, and if that works for you, keep at it.
For others (*raises hand*), it becomes an obsession.
If the number on the scale determines your mood for the day, stop.
I interviewed David Garcia, founder of KeepItUpDavid.com, who lost more than 160 lbs and kept it off for over seven years.
He weighs himself monthly. Not daily or even weekly: only once a month!
That’s enough to keep him on track.
When I lost over 15 lbs years ago I did it by not weighing myself for about a year. I did all the right things, but wasn’t focused on my weight. I’d done that for far too many years.
I felt my clothes getting looser but did not step on a scale until I went for my yearly physical. Today, I weigh myself sporadically. More than that makes me crazy(er).
Do what works for you.
That’s it! Now which ones will YOU put into action?
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